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blogging is therapeutic
Published on July 27, 2008 By whosyurdaddy0417 In Blogging

Last month I read in Newsweek that blogging is therapeutic. I knew that. I am no stranger to blogging, hell I was doing it long before it became the phenomenon that it is now. I saw it as a great opportunity to vent when needed, to tear when in the mood and to actually write something that mattered to somebody. Even if that somebody was me. Unfortunately I belonged to a couple of sites that rewarded controversy and inflammatoey rhetoric pumped out by over-zealous insomniacs who sought ratings. I myself sought comraderie, input and the desire to share (often some very personal shit), under the convenient guise of anonymity, of myself and my life experiences. I never stuck to a format. One day I would post a poem, then a tirade, then another day a melancholy diary entry. I rejected the notion that bloggers were self-important, self-aggrandizing pundits with a microphone but no earned right to hold it. Instead I celebrated the ability of the common man, like me, who could post anything and stimulate a conversation, cause an argument, provoke an original thought or at the very least make someone say "I never thought of it like that". I actively posted on Blogger and then this site and I really found it therapeutic. But I got busy with life and just like that...2 years have passed.

Then I hooked up with an old friend at a local Micro-Brewery and we talked about life. He told me that as an outlet for his melancholy he was Blogging and asked if I had ever done it. And it hit me, I really enjoyed it and always felt better when I was sharing my thoughts with anyonw who would listen. Wouldn't you know that he posts on this very site! This combined with the recent Newsweek article inspired me. 

I know I have been absent for a while but I have been reading...just no posts. But it's time to get back into it.


Comments
on Jul 27, 2008

Were you country when country wasn't cool too? 

Blogging is really just another form of journaling which I believe can be very therapeutic.  The difference is that on sites like this we can get some feedback, usually positive, occassionally negative.  Well, I guess you are right that it is different because it is a public forum.  Anyway, welcome back to blog world. 

on Jul 28, 2008
Yea, JU has been around for almost as long as Stardock. It is good for the soul! Even if not always therputic.